Should i revenge or deal

Keep me logged in on this device Forgot your username or password? Don't have an account? Sign up for free! What do you need help on? Cancel X. Topic Archived Page 1 of 2 Last. Sign Up for free or Log In if you already have an account to be able to post messages, change how messages are displayed, and view media in posts. User Info: lilbigmike User Info: GermSwe User Info: Mike Roman dies in deal, Kate dies in Revenge Northeastern University Huskies Can't wait until the Olympics derails the season in February!

User Info: DeeJayTechnika. User Info: fudgey. User Info: boogertoes. Choose revenge Demitri had it coming. Pus having roman die is to much of a depressing ending. User Info: Silik. Do you play a different mission depending on the choice you make? User Info: frylock While it may be hard to do that at first, continuing to pursue vengeance will only lead to more anger and frustration.

Mohammad Gh, CC0, via Unsplash. When you do something spiteful, you might as well go to the other person in tears and lay down on the ground in front of them and let them walk all over you. You are letting them know that you are devastated and that they have an emotional hold on you. So we have established that the spiteful revenge, although briefly satisfying, is definitely not the best approach. By carrying the need for revenge, you are keeping yourself from moving on and healing.

I think the only way to move on from this type of situation is to forgive. Talk about the hardest thing in the world! It is easy to forgive people you like, but to forgive someone who has betrayed you deeply and doesn't even care is much harder.

Until you forgive them, you will not be able to move on. Instead, you will be trapped in a cycle of anger and resentment. One of the hardest things to do is to let go of your hate and other negative emotions. However, in order to move on with your life, you have to purge yourself of those feelings.

Giving into those negative emotions will not make your situation any better. Focusing on staying positive and making improvements in your life is the approach you have to take. Joshua Earle, CC0, via Unsplash. Now, the forgiving part is not instant.

It is not something that you can just wake up one day and say okay, I forgive them, all the anger and resentment is gone. You make the decision that way, but you have to remind yourself that you have forgiven them when the hard feelings swell up. Keep telling yourself that you forgive them, pray to forgive them, and eventually you will realize that you mean it and that you really do forgive them.

The next part is easier. Once you can move past what happened, live well and succeed. The reason this is easier is that you are not carrying the baggage of anger, which is extremely heavy baggage. Now, everyone's definition of living well and succeeding is different. Mine is being happy; enjoying life. No person should count on another person for happiness. Be happy with yourself and who you are. The rest is just topping on the cake. It is much better to be happy by yourself than be miserable with someone else, trust me on this one.

Never looking for trouble, just don't cross me. You cross a line, like meddle in my personal life using false information. My wife of 18 years was having an affair with one of my freinds, she left me for him and took my 4kids with her she had his kid and got me arrested and i spent 6 months in jail was released without charge when i got out i found out that they had split up,he'd had his fun and was sick of her she begged me back so i forgave her and we got ack together, ive just found out that theh've been seeing each other again, i want to smash him in but i know ill get locked up again, need tips please.

And another thing i think its down right comical that people will say dont take revenge because it will cause only heartache You cross my line you do so at your own risk dont make that first move and we all good. I put it in your hands to decide it. All this " revenge will only cause you heartache " thats all personal opinion That you maintain happiness thru it all Do nothing at all not jod what friend they sit you up make you do thing they dont make it right ok for them smoke with thete kids dont do nothing theygot pay for it.

My ex best friend We'll call her M was perfectly fine, accept M would be rude if she didn't get her way. My family even let her stay a few days. We even woke up at 6 am on the weekends to take her to practice. Well, I have 2 other friends. We all were best friends.

Frequently hung out. Went to each-other's houses, went out. Freshman year of High school. I get a text in class from an unknown number saying I was 'talking behind my friend's back. I'll call her Y I would never hurt Y or talk behind Y's back, we were sisters basically. I taught Y so much, as did she with me. M had something to do with this. Word got around. Her boyfriend E and her did this just to be rude. Like I said, word got around, people started to ignore me and push me around.

My other friends all sided with M and E. As did A and L. Later on, we're doing a group project L, M, Y, me and another friend. We were sent at a certain spot outside of class. We were recording for a video project.

M sees me, thinks I'm slacking off and cusses me out, yells at me in the hallway in front of everyone. M, Y and my other friend don't do anything. At all. Just stand there watching her scream at me, cussing. She said "It's not my fault if you fail' and I was trying to explain that I didn't know what to do but she just threw me back down and said 'It isn't my fault, you should know' at this point, we're near the band hall an an instructor comes out and says for her to lower her voice, watch her attitude, etc.

He goes back inside, she keeps yelling and cussing at me, saying 'I'm going through stuff'. She used that as an excuse to get attention. Then she cries and runs off. L runs after her and that's that. The others are just quiet. I go to the bathroom and just break down. Because, you know. My best friend at the time just cussed me out, why was she being so mean?

Sophomore year comes. Everything is good for a few weeks. Like bro, I never even noticed he was there because he moved to a college school program. I never seen him since 8th grade. My parents back me up on this because they know how she is to.

She had meltdowns at my house and got mad, overall she is very very un-greatful. She never says thank you, puts me down in front of my parents. They've witnessed her ways. The school calls down the two, J and M J is the guy that they both accused me of 'looking at' him, which i'm like I probably did because I haven't seen him for a long time and it's like, hey, he's back. Everything is done, M ignores me completely.

My school still doesn't like me due to rumors she also put out. Ex friends hate me, people don't talk to me. Oh well. Live well? Great maybe if they did something insignificant like cheat on you or or steal your life savings. But with complete and utter systematic patient long term destruction of a persons life, accomplishments, relationships,, family, children, career, health, mental health and all around soul raping sociopath I am thinking something more than a pedicure, Zumba, and Kumbaya at Camp Forgiveness.

Something legal and within the boundaries of the law, but something that will sting. He looks at me the way someone truly loves the other but every time we talked about our relationship he rejects me and tells me that he needs time. I know a guy who get marred for money and they used a close friend she didn't have a green card , all his family was involved , they took the money , and being greedy 2 months before the interview he ask her to sign and take a student loan of k for medical school, she refused.

After she spend 50k on them they need more , he find a Indonesian girl now, in August they get married she need grand card too definitely , actually he find her 5 months before to dump the first one and they make an agreement she suppose to help him to get more money from the first one.

They will have the interview soon for the grand card , she's fuking him for free , she is too poor to give him money. The girl which was dump in the fiery place her attorney advised her to live the country, which she did I'm really sorry for her and she ask me to public her weeding picture.

Having her mother sick she was the only one to support financial her parents. Know she is suffering , become anorexic and she tried to take her on life twice. They was her best friends that what she thinks, but in the real life they just use her for 9 years. How to call people like this?

I just want also tell my story. He collected payment for days now and didnt deliver. He also stopped responding to my emails. Be careful out there guys. Thank you Dr Obudu for your help to humanity, I told you though am not rich to pay you but I won't stop telling the world about the great work you are doing with the gift you have.

Saving me from the abusive relationship I was and giving me a new life with your great spell I will keep telling the world until everyone knows about your great power. If you are reading this and you think it bullshit well that because you don't have any problem but if you are that person who is dying of problems or depression cos you have tried everything and didn't get results don't give up cos you haven't tried Dr Obudu.

My ex left me like a piece of garbage …. I have horrible feeling of how he could do this to both of us Hopefully it prevents someone other girl getting hurt by this dirty community dick. A friend said to me once that it was obvious I didn't like playing games. To this I proudly agreed. My friend continues "that's only because you don't have any". Lucky for me I had my big girl panties on and I do love the honestly.

I appreciate between us. If the same was said without me present would be no friend of mine. If you are like me then you wish not to harm or be harmed physically', spiritually, or socially. Nor do you care to further damage via revenge. Sparing myself and my dignity I scrolled past the gist of the article only because there was no other way to the comments box except for literally strait down. In mine and my children's time of desperate need i turned to my mother for help she said she would be happy to help i gave my rights to my older three babies to her and less than 10months later she put them up for adoption i had no home no job no high school diploma couldn't get a job we needed her there was nothing I could do to save my sweet babies i begged her to give me 6 months to a year to get on my feet she claimed she and my stepfather were retiring and wanted to travel as soon as my babies were gone forever she began raising my little brothers kid.

I haven't seen my kids in almost 12 years once I found them i was told she said i was on drugs and that is why they were taken which was a hugh lie i want her to hurt long and hard like me what could I do to seek the suffering she deserves?

Great article. When I found out an ex was cheating on me, I planned things carefully with the advice of a friend. His face was priceless when he opened and saw it, he was completely humiliated. Simply making a ceremony of dumping him, in front of others, is a great way to get revenge. Then good thing is she will never know she just didn't get a bad batch of gas from a station Unless she reads this Revenge is like a sword with two blades and no handle,it cuts on both ends,he who weilds it will be injured also!

Its one of lifes biggest tests better to leave it go! I know been there done that! This has NOT helped me in the least. I am still burning after almost three years now.

My family were seriously ill at the time and I got NO help at all from my mother's relations. When my family died, they gatecrashed the funerals and were very scornful and laughing in the cemetery. I have this guy I liked so much and it seemed he also liked me but he never said it. Can I message him and clear our misunderstanding and just be normal friends to have peace of mind or should I just let him be? I thought i was gonna get some good tips for getting people back for taking advantage of my nice personality I read your article to get some ideas to exact my revenge.

Your article cheered me up, just reading about some despicable revenges. You made me laugh so hard, and well, I can't feel anger when I am busy chuckling.

Once again, thank you for restoring my temper. Speaking of cheating which my filthy whore Ex wife of mine after being married for 15 years cheated on me, and i was the very faithful one in the relationship which it still meant nothing to her. Whores do really destroy many of us good innocent men for no reason at all, and this is why MGTOW is the real way to go today.

He has a ex sister in law that always in the middlemy partner refuses to talk to me or reconcile now rummer says he is with her as a couple he still refuses to face me.

It's been 5 months I'm healing tryin to move on. She had a new fb before we broke up. My problem is why does she keep trying to have me jumped on and beat up? Ive moved 3 times in 6 months and she's found me at every 1 of the complexes I moved to. This article is a waste of time. One very important rule for successfully writing any kind of blog or story is this, give the reader what you promise in your title.

After reading, they feel they wasted time. Because of trauma of scapegoating I got into a run and hide pattern. Scared like a little bunny rabbit I watched as the perpetrators somehow got taken down by life. I never believed in forgiveness and running but I did live on without revenge the best I could.

The perpetrators lives fell apart and their egos became increasing fragile and started to get depression. Eventually nothing stood in my way. I am awestruck at how things would wind up with the coward getting the winning hand.

Life is strange. Just got ripped off by a so called mate who I'm always helping. I want to do something back but not break the law. How can I do it?

My employee at work lied to police that I made a threat and because his father was a retired deputy, I went to prison! I had absolutely no criminal record but his lie was more powerful than my truth! I lost my home, my job and my family because he was used to getting his way! My son was homeless and died on the street and I witnessed the dark side of justice!

I am livid bc my kids father broke my car window and door. This is the 2nd time he did it and i want to get him back. After reading this i feel God wanted me to read it. I typed in Google whats the best revenge to do to my baby daddy for breaking my window anx this pop up. I read everything and get it. For me my understanding is to leave him alone and work on forgiving. Hes been a dick to me for years. Every level of abuse. This is the last straw.

Today im taking a stand for me. I love me. And it wont be over night it will take me time to forgive and not get back at him. I am very capable of moving forward and not dealing with assholes that mean me no good. After today i get the massage God is showing me.

Hes not the one for me. Its been days my wife betrayed me, though its very pain full to think over which keeps me thinking day n night but i m still together for the kids..

Don't have an account? Sign up for free! Revenge or deal? I was asked to make a deal with dimitri but I have another choice of killing him instead. What do you think Niko actually did,did he kill him or did the deal? User Info: Phoenix. Top Voted Answer. Actually I prefer to kill because if you delt with him he will kill roman and you need roman but if you killed him he will kill kate and that is better because even if you delt she is not going to date after that any more User Info: ramiramzi.

Create another save file and do both User Info: kawish I don't really know what Niko would do, but I think he would choose revenge, he really hates Dimitri, but you're the player, it's your choice. I killed Dimitri I didn't like him anyway but he gets killed ether way.